@bosox04 I am a firm believer that there are no bad words just bad people with bad intentions...but you are the one that started preaching first to barrycarter about his choice to not use crap. You both have the choice to use it or not. It shouldn't be a negative if you chose not to do so.
@bosox04 Believe it or not, some people choose not to use words that can be considered offensive for reason other then "because they're not old enough" but simply because they wish not to use them for reasons of decency and politeness.
Gratuitous use of offensive language is not a sign of age or mental maturity, frequently the reverse.